I feel like I’m living in the fast lane. There is amazing stuff, cool opportunities, and great communities all around me, and I just move with a rhythm and determination because being sedentary is not in my job description. People are shocked when I say I don’t have a television. I’m more sane, and I have way more time for fun stuff. I pay attention to what happens in the world, but I don’t need images and in your face opinions. I read newspapers, and news magazines, and columns, and for me, that’s enough. I have my own little world to nurture and protect.
One month ago, my gardens looked dreary and dead. I lost all of my Carex Grayi plants, we don’t know why. Brutal winter? Dog pee? They came back gorgeous last year, but this year, nothing. I’ve ordered a few replacements, and we will see…

Within one month, the transformation is miraculous… (The yellow flowers are Packera) The specimen tree in the middle of the photo is an American Hornbeam. There are six now on the property.

And at dusk, it is magical.

Note that this is one corner of my property, viewed from the window in my music room where I eat my meals and watch the “show”. The entire half acre is full of native plants (and some remaining non native) and I will admit, there are times I just a tad overwhelmed keeping up with the invasives that insist on taking up residence in my yard.
I go out almost every day and work on an area. I have a robin that follows me around. (Cause when you disturb the soil, it makes the juicy things in the soil easier to get…)

This past month saw daffodils…

My glorious Japanese cherry (yes it isn’t native…) bloomed two weeks early for the first time since my late husband and I planted it in 1982.

I learned about hysteranthy, where the plant flowers before the leaves come out. Like this bloodroot.

And now the irises are starting to open… Even though they aren’t native, I’m in love with them and I don’t care if they spread…

And of course my driveway is framed by bleeding hearts, which aren’t native, but have been there since the 80’s and protect my hostas, also not native, from the deer. I did though, locate a couple large native bleeding hearts at a plant sale last weekend, and they are waiting to go in the ground.

Meanwhile, it is concert season. I thought December was bad… I think I’ve had at least two concerts since my last post. And I have one about every two weeks for the foreseeable future. With different themes, requiring different costumes… I’m on it…
So this was the concert last weekend, in celebration of Mothers, for Mother’s Day. We played a piece attributed to Anne Boleyn who wrote it while imprisoned in the Tower of London, awaiting her death. She knew she wouldn’t be able to raise her daughter, who later became Queen of England…I’m wearing my medieval-esque costume with the split skirt to accommodate my cello.


I made a brocade vest, and used the sheepskin scraps I had in the attic, pieced together to line it. I’ll wear it over my regular costume when it is chilly.




And May 16th, I’ll be playing with NJ Early Music at an America 250 festival in PA. When means a late 18th century costume. So I went spelunking in my closet, and my fabric stash, and ended up repurposing a dress my mother in law wore about 40 years ago to demonstrate Bobbin Lacemaking. I took it mostly apart, cut the skirt up the middle, and reworked the sleeves. I forgot to take a photo of the original. I found a green silk, enough for a split skirt, and I’ll play my cello, and bass recorder for this America 250 event. We will be playing two sets, one at 10 and one at 11:45.


And yes, I’m still weaving! I attended a guild workshop, in Rose Path Rag Rug weaving with Nancy Crampton. It was two days, and we wove a lot of samples. For some reason, which I can’t explain, except that maybe because I’m a yardage for clothing weaver, I’ve never in my 40 plus year career, ever made a rag rug…

So now I have this extremely large sampler of possibilities, all on a Rose Path threading, (that’s my sampler on the left), and I’m actually thinking about making an actual rag rug. (I’ve probably always been a bit hesitant because they are tripping hazards and I’m a klutz, and I have dogs who like to chew up textiles…)
And I’m slowly building the content for my natural dye class journal. Here are the reelings I took from the dyed yarn samples, ready to go into the journal.

But the best news, is the podcast I recorded a couple months ago, for the Sweet Georgia Yarn Company, released on Wednesday. It is an hour long, and the video can be found on YouTube.

Sweet Georgia Show Podcast/ Season 6 Episode 8, May 6, 2026 1 hr 7min.
https://sweetgeorgiayarns.com/the-sweetgeorgia-show-s6-e8-daryl-lancaster
YouTube https://youtu.be/tbRRNszDdGI?si=8mA7uF2QLkO0J_ts
Hopefully if you listen to it, you will be inspired and laugh, because my life is sort of like that. What will she come up with next… Felicia was a lovely interviewer, and I had a blast recording it.
It has been a busy month, I turn 71 in a couple weeks, and I’m having the best time flying from one thing to another, everything in its season, and hoping to be my mom when I grow up. My beloved mother just turned 95 last weekend. I’m so very lucky to have my number one fan/supporter still with me, cheering me on, waiting anxiously to read my latest blog post (she has no internet access by choice), which will go out in tomorrow’s mail to her.
For those celebrating Mother’s Day, know that caring for anything, a child, a grown child, an animal, nature, plants, anything that requires us to pay attention and give generously of our time, patience and perseverance, deserves to be celebrated. May you all find something to celebrate Sunday, regardless of whether or not you have actual children.
Stay tuned…






































































































